Planning
their own funeral makes most people feel a little uneasy,
but preparing for the inevitable is a wise way to make your
wishes known and relieve your loved ones of financial responsibility.
According to the ARRP, more than 7 million funerals had
been pre-arranged in the United States through 1994.
The
National Funeral Directors Association notes that pre-arranging
a funeral does not require prepayment although prepaying
is often an advantage.
The
primary reason many consumer choose pre-arrangement is the
peace of mind that comes from knowing that a spouse, child
or other family member will not be left with the emotional
burden of making difficult decisions when they are bereaved.
Spouses
and children have an easier time when the funeral has been
pre-arranged. Their pain is the same, but because they are
not having to make difficult decisions, the are able to
focus on each others' needs and feelings. According to the
National Research Information Center, a non-profit organization
based in Des Plaines, Illinois, if you are going to make
an informed choice when pre-arranging your funeral, you
need to know: The type funeral you want, what you can afford,
if guarantees are provided on merchandise and services,
what happens if you move and want to change funeral homes,
the tax consequence of the funding arrangements, if any,
and if you are protected against inflation.
Many
choose the pre-arrangement option because it allows them
to comparison shop to find a funeral home that can provide
the price and style that meets their needs. Generally funeral
plans consist of a two step process: Making the funeral
arrangements with a pre-need contract, and funding the cost
of the pre-arranged funeral through life insurance, a bank
trust agreement or other methods.
It
is possible to select funeral goods and services without
pre-funding the funeral or to pre-fund a funeral without
selecting specific goods and services, but if you do either
of these, the price of the funeral is often not guaranteed.
The
contract should identify the person selling the contract,
the person purchasing the contract and the person for whom
the contract is purchased. The contract should contain a
complete description of the merchandise and services purchased.
The funeral home is required by law to give you a General
Price List that contains the current cost of each individual
item and service. It must also contain information about
embalming, cash advance sales, containers for cremation
and any purchases that are required. Cash advance items
are goods and services that are paid on your behalf such
as cemetery services, flowers, newspaper notices and honoraria
for clergy and musicians. Some funeral providers charge
you their cost on these items while others add a fee to
their cost